Unbroken

We are all of us carrying around our own broken pieces. Some are very visible, and some are less so. What makes us feel and appear “broken” is how we relate to those pieces. Healing truly starts, not with fixing what is broken, but by accepting all the jagged edges and wobbly bits as a part of our own unique whole.

The Long Pause

I took a pause. I gave myself permission to sit back, and to notice, and to set an intentional direction for how I mean to go on in the world. I gave myself permission to write my own narrative without the need to put it down on paper.

What makes you you?

What happens when you find that you have become unmoored from your "normal" life? How do you assess and cope with a situation that requires you to abruptly rewrite the framework of what you do,…

Homemade Bitters

There really is nothing more intriguing to me than a perfect balance of interesting flavors in a cocktail glass. The alchemy of creating craft cocktails from scratch is probably best left to those with some…

The Perfect Denim Jumpsuit

Simple is not synonymous with boring. Hopefully by now you accept that as a given. I suppose you could argue that a fitted denim jumpsuit isn't exactly simple, but in my wardrobe, a one-piece look…

Vintage Statement Sweater

There's a delicate balance you need to perfect in order to really make a statement piece work in your wardrobe. If you do it wrong, it wears you, and no one wants to play second…

Love in the Time of Coronavirus

In this time of mass chaos, panic, and pandemic, I've been revisiting some of what I've taught myself over the past years and months about fear. Specifically what it means to live when something you're…

Bitter Herbal Manhattan

Most problems can't be solved by drinking a cocktail, and its not exactly good practice to go about the cocktail method as a solution to problems in any case. That doesn't mean I'm not going…

Mediterranean Probiotic Bowl

I go through phases where I crave flavors from certain parts of the world with incredible voracity. Being married to an Egyptian, our house tends to have a Middle Eastern craving more often than other…

You’re Never Too Old to Change

Today, I am 35. It’s a day, much like any other day in recent weeks. Unremarkable in its way, and yet I’ve realized as it approached that this day also has a profound significance. For…

The Approach to 35

“Ladies and…ladies, we are now on our final approach to 35. You may feel you know what birthdays are about, but I can assure you, you’ll want to buckle up for this one. Your flight…

Learn to Love Your Roots

I am, at heart, a cowgirl. I know, you've seen all the pictures of the fashion and the cities, and you're wondering if you're in the right blog right now. But, the fact of the…

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